They say…that you always end up teaching that which you needed most to learn. That is certainly true in my life.
Growing up, I was very involved in athletics and, was blessed to have made many friends, both male and female with great ease. I have an understanding, respect and love for men, and in turn they feel that when they are around me. People feel safe, comfortable, and not judged to confide in me. I have a wonderful gift – a natural ease and sense of humor communicating about intimacy, sensuality and sacred sexuality.
I had to learn and experience my gift because I didn’t have a sense of my sexuality early on, so at a young age I became pregnant with my very first boyfriend, and as a result I had to get married. I wasn’t familiar with my body having never self-pleasured myself before I had sex. It was the early 70’s, and our apartment became the “hang out” pad. My friends just assumed that if I was married I must be an expert and know something about sex and orgasms.
But the truth is – here I was 17, recently married, new baby son, and I hadn’t even had an orgasm yet! It really wasn’t something my mother taught me – much less even talked about. My young husband had me convinced that there must be something wrong with my anatomy. He actually thought I might be missing my clitoris. I was so distraught that I confided in my older brother-in-law. He gave me the book “What You Always Wanted To Know About Sex but Were Afraid To Ask”.
As soon as I got home with my new treasure I began to study and experiment. It wasn’t long before I began enjoying pleasure and having orgasms.. I was so thrilled by this new discovery that I started to share everything I was learning and experiencing with all who came over to hang out. I soon became known as the “Sex Coach”.
I continued to read and study, coach, attend workshops, and personally experience my own sensual essence so I could openly share that very part of me, and at the same time freely assist others in need. I felt deeply called upon to be the voice for enjoying our sensual essence, and I still feel very much the same way today, only now even more so – as I now know that I’m here to usher in the “Decade of Sacred Sensuality/Sexuality”.
That young marriage did not last.
I went to college and found that with my sensual self-confidence, friendly personality, and love for people that I was very well suited for sales. Most of my career I was very successful in sales. I became a Sales & Marketing Director for several large corporations to fulfill my financial responsibilities as a mother. I had to keep my “intimacy coaching” as my secret. But passion – as it were – has always been my passion. I’ve been very fortunate to be able to blend together my skills from the business world with that of my gift to assist others in experiencing their full sensual potential.
Then – at age 42 – I went through surgically induced menopause. Not only did I have to come to terms with the emotional and physical impact of early menopause, but I also knew intuitively that I didn’t want to take synthetic hormones. I chose instead to learn how to better handle my terrible hormonal imbalance symptoms and issues with natural supplements and bio-identical solutions. I worked with a company that created one of the first, over-the-counter natural progesterone creams. While conducting educational seminars for the hormone company I spent years speaking to hundreds of women and men about hormone balance and sensuality. This was 1996 – well before there was any medical information, or much press coverage readily available about bio-identical hormones. Since that time I added the importance of hormone balance to enhance health, desire, and vitality to my coaching, public speaking, and co-ed gatherings/workshops.
I have always enjoyed my sensuality, but I knew there was more to experience. Not only was there a vulnerable part of my heart that I had always protected, but there was also a deep pain that I and most women experience when we know that we’re not fully surrendering, opening up, or letting go completely to pleasure, sensuality and love. I’m happy to say that I was finally able to LET GO. Letting go to pleasure and my feminine sensual essence has allowed me to enjoy deeply intimate, conscious, fun and fulfilling relationships. I have experienced the surprising power of being in my feminine sensual essence, and the empowerment and joy of complete surrender and openness. This spiritual/sexual experience is way beyond what I ever dreamed possible. I regularly experience my true sacred, sensual life force essence, and in turn it transports me into states of amazing bliss and ecstasy.
My clients and I know from deep, personal experience that it is possible for anyone to experience improved sensual/sexual desire, enhanced vitality, intimacy and passion – regardless of age or gender. I share my wisdom freely through public speaking, sharing stories, and personal coaching. I am open to learn and grow from the wisdom of others. My clients tell me that I create a safe, supportive space that lovingly and intuitively facilitates breakthroughs by giving them permission to enjoy sensuality – thus leading them to more fulfilling lives.
I look forward to connecting with you.
Debra

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