Do you dream of deeper connection and intimacy in your relationships

It all starts with personal intimacy - and let’s be frank - it’s an inside job.

Are you searching for ways to improve the quality of intimacy in your life?  Whether you are dating, hoping to attract a partner, or wanting to develop more intimacy and connection with your current partner, owning and being empowered by your pleasure and sexual energy will help you to have more fulfilling, satisfying and intimate relationships.

“Debra knows how to help people to reclaim their pleasure, drop their shame and be their most sensual selves”.

Tom, Orange County, Ca

Imagine…

Feeling safe and to let go of negative "beliefs" about intimacy, sensuality and sexuality, the guilt and shame and all the other judgements that you have heard all your life.

Imagine…

Being your most conscious, sensuous self and allowing your partner the same freedom.

Everyone dreams of having an honest, intimate, relationship, deep down, this is what everyone really wants, and yet, fear the most.   

Most of us were NOT given permission to have pleasure (whether in the bedroom or doing what we love). And though you were born with a body that is designed to feel, sense and know pleasure … none of us are born knowing how to ask or show our partners how to activate those feelings.  It’s like getting the best chocolate in the world and not knowing how to unwrap the package.  You can smell the aroma, your taste buds begin dripping saliva but you have no idea how to access that delicious, rich flavor. Frustrating!

We are all worthy of experiencing intimate pleasure. It’s time to be open to experiencing all that you are.

If not now…when?

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Meet Debra

Intimacy & Healthy Sensuality Coach, Speaker and Workshop Facilitator

Debra has been guiding people for over 30 years to experience more pleasure, deeper intimacy and empowered sensuality as part of a well-balanced life.

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Testimonials

  • I wish I would have known the things I learned today when I was in my teens!

    Gail
    Hollywood, CA
  • The “Empowered Sensuality and Mojo” class is probably my favorite!. It would have been a real plus had I been able to get this information when I was sixteen and filled with raging hormones and no knowledge, but better late than never. In our society talking about sex is still taboo so being able to have frank and informative dialogue in a safe setting was so freeing. The class educated me on many subjects in a tasteful, direct and fun way, especially Debra’s knowledge about hormones as we age. Sex and pleasure makes us feel good on many levels: love, playfulness, spiritually, producing all the feel good hormones and its healthy and not fattening! The class has reaffirmed to me that it’s ok to still have great connection, intimacy and sex into our golden years. I recommend anything Debra teaches.

    Carole
    Sedona AZ
  • In one private session, Debra helped me get past the guilt and understand that sexuality is a divine gift, something to be celebrated. She is knowledgeable, honest and direct. She gave me the tools I needed to experience pleasure and joy I didn't even know I was missing. She is a blessing and a sister among sisters. The world would be a better place if more women could spend time learning from her. Thank you Debra!

    Becky
    San Clemente, CA
  • Having just completed your class, "What Do Women Want", I wanted to thank you very much for your women's wisdom words, both poignant and provocative, both with a common sense wit and yet filtered through a heart-felt honesty. I admire you for your willingness to embrace the cutting-edge of intimacy, sensuality, sexuality...and also to challenge our worn-out societal attitudes and beliefs on those subjects. Your sense of humor is a gift. In addition, I am finding that your thoughts on what women are looking for in a man--namely presence, purpose, passion--are traits I am beginning to look for in all my relationships. KUDOS, Debra.......

    JT
    Sedona, AZ
  • I attended the For Men Only… “What do Women Want?” workshop.  Debra's approach to intimacy, sensuality, and sexuality is a no-nonsense, refreshing, and common-sense journey through all four levels of that all-too-human experience of relating sexually to those of the opposite gender. She speaks openly honestly, humorously, and freely on the physical, emotional, mental, AND, yes, by God, the Spiritual--yes, that's a capital 'S' --aspects of our sexual experience. No questions are left unanswered, no topics glossed over, no doors unopened, no delicate issues avoided. For the ride of your life on the roller coaster we joyously call SEX, do not miss Debra Jean's masterful presentation on our shared sexual experience.

    John T
    Sedona, AZ, 2012
  • Debra - you are such a powerfully sensual woman and facilitator.  I felt more sensuous just sitting next to you! What you shared and taught us in “Reclaiming Your Moj0 and Owning Your Power as a Sensual Woman” workshop is what we should have learned when we were growing up. What we got was how to be prudish, guilty and warned not to be “too” sensuous. You made it feel so easy to allow myself to be the natural sensual woman I was born to be. I can't wait for your next gathering.

    Joyce W
    Sedona, AZ,
  • Like many other women of my generation, I didn’t have a mother that I could talk to about sexuality. I made my way through trial and error and at midlife, found myself feeling like that part of my life was over. In one private session, Debra helped me get past the guilt and understand that sexuality is a divine gift, something to be celebrated. She is knowledgeable, honest and direct. She gave me the tools I needed to experience pleasure and joy I didn’t even know I was missing. She is a blessing and a sister among sisters. The world would be a better place if more women could spend time learning from her. Thank you Debra!

    Tina
    San Clemente, CA
  • After being coached by Debra I was able to be in a relationship with a fully present woman who owns and loves her sensuality. It is a humbling and deepening experience. She showed me a fuller and more beautiful reality than I could have ever imagined or dreamed possible. The grace, fluidity, motion, compassion and how fast it changes are surprising, moving and heart opening. Being with her riveted me deeper into my own grounded state. I found that this sacred sensuality and surrender was only revealed or gifted to me, as Debra showed me, when I was being a man of integrity and completely trustworthy.

    Brian
    Laguna Beach